Monthly Archives: May 2013

Under One Roof

We have had some good days together! Trey did get to come home on Friday and all 7 of us were under one roof for the first time since early April. It was awesome! I love being together and love watching Trey interact with his siblings. We are hoping Trey can stay fever/problem free, at least for the rest of the weekend. We are taking him back on Monday and look forward to seeing what his lab work reveals after being home for a few days.

Trey’s skin problems continue and we persist in prayer asking God to help remove the problems. Once again though, we are grateful Trey’s rash does not really bother him. He has had such a good time being home though and I so love that for him.

Any way, I will probably post again on Monday, but until then, I’m just going to enjoy time with the family. Please keep praying for Trey…we want to pray him all the way home for good.

Also, please keep praying for Toby, my nephew. Ben and Jeannie are trusting the Lord with their son, but he is in a very difficult situation. Toby may have many things going against him medically, but he is in the Lord’s hands totally. Keep lifting him up to the Lord. God has a plan.

Thanks for journeying with us and laboring with us in prayer. We love you!

He is Able!

As I write this, life is in a very difficult place for me, my family, and my community. I’ve been reflecting greatly on these challenges and struggles over the past few days. Currently, my mother in law continues to bravely battle stage four bone cancer; my brother and sister-in-law are facing an incredibly tumultuous and volatile situation with their new baby; my own mother recently had a mild surgery and experienced some complications from that; our community and state just experienced one of the most horrific tornadoes in human history; my worship pastor just lost his father, I’m doing a funeral for a beloved member of our church this Saturday, and of course, our youngest son continues to fight daily for his life. So, with all that going on, you can imagine why I was crying out to God to spare our home as I sat in my neighbor’s storm shelter just a few days ago…I prayed, “Please Lord, I’m not sure I could handle one more thing right now.”

However, as I have been reflecting, I am coming to understand in a new way that there is NOTHING I cannot handle with the grace and strength of the Lord. If I would have popped my head out of the storm shelter and found my house leveled, God would have supplied what I would have needed to endure. I’m not saying I would have enjoyed that loss by any means…what I am saying is that somehow, someway, God would have provided what I needed. At the end of John 15:5, Jesus tells us that “apart from Him, we can do nothing,” while Philippians 4:13 says that “we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us.” So…what that tells me is that I desperately need to cling to the Jesus EVERY SECOND OF EVERYDAY, because with Him I can endure any storm, but without Him, I’ll sink faster than a boulder that’s dropped into a pond. If there is anything I know right now, it is this: I need Jesus like the air I breathe…every minute or everyday.

What happens in most of our American-Christian lives though, is we get comfortable. We get used to living the American dream and rocked to sleep with the comforts and conveniences of this world. And then…suffering comes…tragedy strikes…and we are awakened out of this worldly sleep and realize just how far we have drifted from our desperate and daily need to walk with Jesus. Suffering, on any level, causes God’s children to cry out for help, for deliverance, for strength, etc. When we suffer, we always find ourselves facing situations beyond our control and we feel helpless…BUT…it is in those moments that God shows up and becomes more real to us than perhaps ever before. In those moments, we find out if we truly trust the One we have entrusted our soul to. We find out that God is more than able to carry the weight we bear and has what we need to endure it. We find out that God is without a doubt ALL we need because He becomes ALL we have!

So, as I reflect…I’m grieving in many ways and for many people; I’m hurting with and for many people, and I’m also longing for patience and strength and grace for all…but I know this, God is the source of those things and He will gloriously supply all my needs and the needs of those who trust in Jesus Christ! As the Scripture says, “His grace is sufficient and His power is made perfect in our weaknesses.” Well…I sit here today weak, but knowing He is strong! I sit here today knowing I cannot, but He can! I sit here today not knowing what my next step be, but knowing He is directing all of my steps. So…today…in the midst of whatever you and I face…HE IS ABLE AND HE WILL SEE US ALL THROUGH!

“Lord, help us all to look to You and trust in You today! While our lives are constantly changing, YOU NEVER CHANGE! You are our Rock, our deliver, the only true God…and our hearts rest in You. We love You Lord!” Help us. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.”

A Respite for Trey

Well…Trey is doing pretty good. Even though his numbers are low, they are good considering all he has been through and the level of medications he is taking daily. However, his doctors feel Trey’s morale is a little low and would like to give him a couple of days away from the hospital. So…if Trey has a good day today and handles Campath well in the morning, he might get to come home for the weekend. I think this will be a very good thing for Trey.

Of course, we are a little nervous taking him out of the hospital, but we feel we will be able to keep him isolated and safe for a couple of days…plus it will lift his spirits tremendously. Trey is not depressed or anything like that, it just wears on you being in the hospital for so long. Getting some sunshine and fresh air will be great…along with some quality time with his family.

His rash is still concerning to our doctors. Emily and I think it’s improved slightly, but it’s still very pronounced. It would be FANTASTIC if his rash started disappearing significantly…quickly. Please keep that as a matter of prayer.

Any way, I hope Trey gets to go home. He knows not to get his hopes up, but he is very much wishing he can have the weekend at home.

One more thing…we do not know when Trey’s next transplant will be yet. They want to get the rash under control first. Our doctor’s will be meeting us sometime in the next week or two to discuss what is next for Trey. We will update you with those details when we have them. We love you and GREATLY appreciate your prayers!

Jeremy

Kindergarten is almost over!

School is over in two days and it is hard to believe that Trey missed virtually all of his kindergarten year. He has worked hard to stay up with his school work all year though. He has done so good. We are hoping he will be able to start the first grade on time…with all his friends. It’s a long shot and the odds are not in his favor, but God likes to go against the odds sometimes. Here is a picture I took with Trey in early September when he had just started kindergarten:

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Back w the T-Man

After a long and eventful first part of the week, I finally made it back with Trey. I have missed him BAD!!! I’ll get about 3 days with him and then I have to head back to Newcastle on Saturday for a funeral I’ll be doing.

I’ll write an update on Trey tomorrow after I see the doctor…so probably around Noon. For now, I’m just going to enjoy being with him.

Update on Trey

From Emily:

Nothing really new to report on Trey. He is doing well. He is not requiring any pain medication, and his spleen is staying down. His appetite is also much better. The rash is still there, and the doctors are still deciding what to do about it. He has a procedure scheduled for next Tuesday if it is not much better….We are applying creams daily and increasing the campath does slightly.
Trey is such a strong little boy, but he asks everyday when he can go home. Please pray for the days to pass quickly for Trey and that God will give him peace as he waits patiently on His perfect timing!’

A Few Things…

Trey is looking pretty good. He continues to have no fevers, or tummy pain…and he’s eating almost normally again. His new craving is the TWIX bar. He would eat 6 of them a day if we would let him. The doc also disconnected him from IV fluids today too, so now he can walk around without being connected to the medicine pole. That’s really great for him.

The rash is still very pronounced. I think it may be a bit fainter in color, but it’s still very much there. Since we know it’s the lukemia cells that have infiltrated the skin, we are hoping the Campath will target those cells as well now that the abnormal cells in the blood seem under control. We will see. The creams don’t seem to be working…if they are, they are slow moving. Any way, we needs signs of improvement by Monday morning. Please pray about that.

Some other good news is that Trey’s spleen still feels smaller, and his blood counts are looking better. We also continue to praise God that we have a match for Trey. It will be a few weeks before we do the next transplant though. So…it’s looking to be a long summer for all of us…and we are already praying this transplant will be just what Trey needs to live a long and healthy life. Oh Lord, may it be!

Also, my nephew, Toby, has improved. They took him off the ECMO machine today. He’s still on the ventilator, but his saturation levels are all staying up right now without the ECMO machine help. That’s a huge improvement from last week. The next step will be to wean him off the ventilator and see how he does with basic oxygen help…then the final step will be to see how he does breathing on his own. Ben and Jeannie are grateful and thankful for all this. Keep praying for them too.

Any way, life is interesting. Some days I feel very strong, and other days on the verge of collapse. We know God is with us and His will is being done. We are just holding on to Him and trying to endure with His joy! We are blessed to know and serve the one true God! Please keep the prayers coming. We love you.

Why you desperately need Jesus!

I just finished my sermon for Sunday. It’s entitled, “Why you desperately need Jesus!” I will be back in Ephesians 2:11-22…specifically in vv.14-18. I am very excited to share what God has placed on my heart! Invite someone to come and worship with us. It’s going to be a great Sunday.

Trey Update

Trey is getting ready to have his Campath today. We are upping the dosage just slightly in hopes of trying to really get to the cells that have infiltrated his skin. Please pray that the Campath will continue to keep the abnormal cells suppressed in the blood and start to go after the cells in the skin.

Trey’s rash is still very pronounced…it may be a touch lighter, but it’s just hard to tell if the rash is any better. Please continue to lift him up. The rash needs to be resolved before they can move onto the next bone marrow transplant. The have found a donor though…which is a huge answer to prayer. We, of course, do not know the donor’s name, but I’m told he’s a young man in his early 20’s. We are so thankful to have a match.

Trey will have the weekend off from Campath, and we are hoping that when Monday rolls around, that his skin will look much better. We know you’re praying and we really appreciate it! Please Lord…kill the bad cells…ALL OF THEM!